Reclaim Your Pleasure: Own Your Potential.
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Hello, you.
Ready to stop settling and start experiencing the depth of your own sexual potential? I hope to offer you something different from the norm when it comes to sex-positive coaching. Let’s see if we gel…
I’m Matt Valentine-Chase — The London Sex Coach.
I provide high-level, non-judgemental, online sex and relationship coaching for those who are ready to stop performing and start living.
My approach is raw, honest, and intentionally atypical. If you’re ready to throw away the societal scripts and explore what pleasure actually means for you, you’re in the right place.
Why Work With Me?
With over 26 years of experience as a therapist and coach, I don’t just “talk” about sex — I facilitate transformation. My practice is deeply kink-positive, trauma-informed, and inclusive. Whether you are navigating a loss of libido, relationship stagnation, sexual “stuckness,” or the nuances of sex and disability, I provide a space where nothing is off-limits.
I am also a fierce advocate for sex workers’ rights; my practice remains a safe, confidential harbour for everyone in the industry (see the sex worker therapy page).
A Choice, A Unique Path
A “Held” Model for Lasting Results — The 3-Session Vault
As I enter my 27th year in this field, I am shifting the way I work to serve you better. To ensure we move past surface-level talk and into the heart of your intimacy, I am moving toward a “Deep Dive” model.
By working in 3-session containers, we bypass the small talk and get straight to the work that creates deep, lasting, and sustainable change.
Vault session container fees are listed below.
Click Book Now to view all available sessions, packages, and concession rates.
Want Something Less Involved?
You Do You: The 1-Session Container Package
1 session — maximum results. With a minimum of 90 minutes, you will be asked to do a little extra prep for this way of working so we can start flying straight away. Simply select London Sex Coach Single Dive Intensive Session on the booking page (or click that link).
My Commitment to Ethical Payments
First things first: transparent pricing: A single 90 minute session is: £185.00GBP. A 3-session Vault Package is: £555.00GBP. Concessions for: Sex workers (see sex workers page or booking page). To ensure my practice aligns with the values of integrity and community support, I am currently expanding my payment options to include more ethical, independent processors. While I finalise these "big-corp-free" pathways, I appreciate your patience. My goal is to ensure that every part of your therapeutic journey—including the transaction—supports a fairer economy.